Stay at home mom a job or a privilege?

stay at home mom
Single DaD asked:

Have you ever thought about the single parents with jobs before you answer about “is being a stay at home mom” a job or a privilege? I have always seen it as a privilege. I worked 2 jobs so my ex-wife when we were together could stay home. Now, I have custody of the kids. I do it all on my own.

They do all the things that need to be done at the house and go to work. When stay at home moms significant other gets home, They get to share the load of taking care of the kids and house work. A single parent does it on their own.

Yes, its hard work to stay home and raise kids. I do not use day care. I get the kids off to work and I am home as they get home. I still work 40 hours a week with no lunch or breaks so I can be home with my kids.