To work, or not to work? That’s a question that most new moms face after the birth of a child, and the answer may not always be easy. Kate Kelly, Managing Editor of American Baby Magazine, weighs in on the struggles working moms may face as they re-enter the workforce, as well as how stay-at-home moms stay connected to the outside world.
Many women return to work after having a child because of their family’s financial situation. Some families simply can’t afford to have one parent stay at home. But Kelly advises that working moms should keep their focus short term. “You don’t have to plan the rest of your career right now,” says Kelly. “You just have to think about… the next six months.” If you would like to stay at home with your child for a while, try it out and see how it goes. It may not be for you; some women love being a part of the work force.
If you do decide to go back to work, be sure to find good help. “Childcare is the hardest piece of it all,” says Kelly. “You’re leaving your baby with someone and you just want to feel confident that the baby is okay and is getting good care.” If you know your child is well taken care of, you’ll be able to focus more at your job and feel less guilty about having to return to work.
Remember, too, that you can’t have it all. “One of the biggest challenges of working moms is that they’re so used to just over-delivering on every aspect of their life,” says Kelly. You are not a superhero, so don’t try to be one. It’s okay to come home and only give 90%. You’re juggling two very time-demanding tasks.
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